Hi Kathy – the key to successful toilet training is timing. In order for Jack to succeed, he needs to be physically, emotionally and mentally ready. Physical signs to look out for include reasonably predictable bowel movements, he needs to be able to independently get himself to the toilet and pull his pants down, he needs to be able to recognise the feeling that he needs to go to the toilet or can control the urge to go. Mental signs of readiness means he understands what you are saying and can follow simple instructions, can predict and communicate when he needs ‘to go’ or becomes uncomfortable and complains if his nappy is dirty or removes his nappy following a wee. Social and emotional signs of readiness include an increase in imitative behaviours, he may demonstrate independence (often by saying ‘no’ to requests) or show a desire to please you and other adults. If Jack shows at least two or three of the physical, emotional and mental signs that I have listed here then he should be ready for toilet training – if not I would hold off. You can start by encouraging him to sit on the toilet or potty after meals, you can make this a more pleasant experience by giving him a book to read. Repetition and reinforcement are keys to successful toilet training – keep talking to him about how we do our poos and wees in the potty/toilet, read him books about toileting, or let him watch you using the toilet (if you are OK with this). There is a great toilet training guide that you can download off the Huggies website which includes lots of great tips and ideas to ensure the process goes as smoothly as possible. Good luck and enjoy!

Regards,
Dr Cathrine

Ask Dr Cathrine a question