Peer Pressure

PRESSURE FROM PEERS IS NOTHING TO FEAR WHEN YOU HAVE A CONFIDENT KID

Peer pressure is an unavoidable part of growing up and it affects children in different ways. Factors such as self-confidence, friends, parents, intelligence and popularity all have an impact.

What causes bedwetting?

If your child is going through a bedwetting phase, you're probably wondering what's causing it. The short answer is that it's usually down to a minor developmental delay, which will straighten itself out over time. It's quite rare for bedwetting to be caused by an underlying medical condition. The most common form of bedwetting is called primary nocturnal enuresis. This refers to when a child has never been dry at night. Common causes are things like genetics, a neurological development delay between the bladder and brain, or the underproduction of the antidiuretic hormone ADH that signals to the kidneys to produce less urine at night. The other type of bedwetting is secondary nocturnal enuresis. This refers to a child who has been dry for six months or more, and then starts to wet the bed. This is typical the result of underlying medical issues or by emotional factors. For children with primary nocturnal enuresis, it means your child's bladder capacity has not developed to the point of being able to hold urine overnight. Children who wet the bed at night may have a nervous system that is slow to process the feeling of a full bladder. So your child does not wake up or respond to the messages sent from their bladder to their brain saying its full and needs emptying. As their body matures the messages sent from the bladder start to get through and your child learns to wake and go to the toilet. Most children who experience bedwetting haven't reached this developmental stage yet. But don't worry, they'll get there soon. While deep sleeping certainly plays a role in bedwetting it is not the primary cause of why it happens in the first place. Deep sleeping just makes it even harder for children to response to the signal sent from their bladder telling them to 'wake-up'. Secondary nocturnal enuresis is a little more complex. If your child has been dry at night for six months and they relapse back to bedwetting, it's often a sign of emotional problems or stress. Common catalysts include big events, such as moving house, a new sibling, or starting school. Stressful situations, including tension in the home, death of a family member or pet, or being bullied at school can also cause your child to start wetting the bed again. Other causes of secondary bedwetting include minor medical conditions, such as constipation or a urinary tract infection. In very rare cases, bedwetting can be caused by diabetes. One thing to remember through all of this is that the cause is never laziness. It's important to remain calm and not to take out any frustration on your child, even though it can be a real pain to change sheets every night. Provide some extra support to your child by using DryNites® Night Time Pants or BedMats. It gives them a little more independence and they're an effective safety net at night.

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WHAT IS PEER PRESSURE?

Peer pressure is the influence a group of peers has on its members to fit into a particular way of thinking or behaving. As children get older the peer group becomes increasingly influential. Bedwetting can be associated with feelings of guilt and shame, and a loss of self-esteem. If your child talks about feeling different from others or has low self-esteem, they may be more sensitive to negative pressure from peers.

 

HOW TO DEAL WITH PEER PRESSURE

Coping with peer pressure is about a balance between adopting the behaviours or attitudes of the group and remaining true to yourself.

  • Build your child’s self-esteem. Children who are self-assured are less likely to be influenced by peers.
  • Foster open communication and trust. Be confident that your child will make the right decisions or will feel that they can come to you for help.
  • Encourage your child to have diverse circles of friends. A wider friendship circle provides your child with friends to turn to when other friendships become a ‘bit tricky’.

 

DR CATHRINE

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